Unexpected life changing events

In my life, I have experienced some significant life changing events - good and bad.  Most of us have at some point in time.

I am in the midst of a good and bad life changing event.  While I don't mind change at all, some changes I do resist and find very difficult to adjust to.  Especially when the changes are unfair to me (and my family), are unjust, deliberately vindictive and impact on us in a negative way.

The good part of this event is that

• My husband, children and family are the most precious people I have in my life.  They have shown me unconditional support and love through some of my darkest days.  
• I have friends who are also the most precious people I have in my life.  They too have shown me unconditional support and love through those dark times.  I will never, ever forget their kindness.
• I have found out who my real friends actually are and I was very surprised.

Some lessons I have learn't

• Even if people consciously know they are doing the wrong thing to someone, they will still continue to do the wrong thing if it means it will make their life easier, accentuate their position of power or blindly follow leaders to ensure their position in the "clique".
• It doesn't matter how dedicated you are, how supportive you have been, how many results you have achieved - all the good you have ever done is forgotten the moment you can't "toe the line".
• That sometimes you must go backwards, in order to be able to move forward.
• To stand up for what is right, even if that means you stand alone

Eventually it will all be over and what is meant to be - will be..............................

No matter what, my wonderful family and friends will still be with me and we will all go on to lead wonderful happy lives.  The future is ours to take!

Future posts will be about Thrifty Cottage fun, so stay tuned.

Love 

Rach

xxxxxx

PS, Karma is real and will be visiting certain others.............